Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Tom's Implant








Day 10 Post Op Pictures from Tom K
Pictures show that bruising and swelling has gone
way down. Tom elected to have an AMS 700 LGX implant and instead of going through the scrotum, his doctor performed a Pubic Insertion.
Tom looks to be healing very nicely following implant surgery.




Tom K. Story Continued
Day 1 post surgery
I just got home from the hospital a few hours ago from getting my AMS LGX implanted. I'm pretty sore, but its not as bad as I thought it would be. I'm still a little loopy, so I can't write too much yet. Let me just say that everything seemed to go fine, except that when I woke up, I was in a lot of pain. Once I felt a little better, I reached down and noticed that I was wearing a supporter, and I had a catheter coming out of me, and it was glued and taped to my belly. With in two hours, I was sitting up some, and looking for some food! Later that night, my urologist told me that he had a hard time putting the tubes in, because I had scar tissue in my corpora's. By then, my pain was also under control due to the pain medications.
Day 2 post surgery.
Now down to what's going on. Last night was not a good night, I had to pee at least every 30 minutes all night. ! I couldn't point it down, so I had to lie on my side and pee into a jug they given me. Then the pain got a lot worse. My penis has swollen to the point where it almost looks like I've got a hard on. As of now, its gone down some, but its still sore.
Day 3 post surgery.
This is my third day now, and things are much better then yesterday. My pain level is much lower, and I'm able to sit up for a much longer time. I'm still black and blue on my sack, and my penis is still pretty swollen, but its improving. Its still hard to aim when I pee, but it sure beats having to use a bottle every time laying on my side! The swelling seems to be getting a little better due to using ice 24-7 since I got out of surgery.
Day's 4, 5, 6, and 7 post surgery.
On the forth day, my pain level increased quite a bit. I had to take more pain medicine then the day before, and the swelling has gone up a little. Most of the pain I'm feeling at this point is coming from my penis itself. It feels like it’s erect, and it’s harder to bend down to pee. One good thing is, my incision is healing up very well as can be seen in the day 3 and 10 pictures. Day seven started getting better again, and the swelling is dropping quickly, and so did the pain level.
Day's 8,9, and 10 post surgery.
On Day 8, I went and saw my urologist Doctor Kachel. He seemed very pleased to see how well I was healing, and that the swelling was way down! My pain level was very low, I didn't need anything for pain, and it felt much more normal to the touch. My hair is even starting to grow back, so it doesn't itch any more. I'm able to get out for short walks, and when I get back, there is still no pain. At this point, I have no regrets getting this surgery done.
Day 3
Tom plans on submitting additional photos later on in his surgical recovery. The first thing you take away from Tom when you talk with him is here is a guy who doesn't let obstacles stop him from living life to its fullest. Tom works as an advocate for the blind, and yet he lives life to the fullest and doesn't allow a handicap to stand in his way. He serves as a role model to every man who has struggled with ED. Are you being handicapped by ED in your life? Are you letting it control and frustrate your life? I have spoken with dozens of men all over the world that allow fear to stop them from taking steps to regain control over their own sexuality. Fear doesn't control Tom's life. Tom is a man who doesn't let the difficulties of ED stop him. How about you?

Another view, Day 3 Post Op

















Frontal View Day 3 Postop












Tom has bruising occurring in his scrotal area













Day 3 Post Op with Pubic Incision














Frontal Shot taken a week prior to Tom's implant surgery




























Dear Readers:





It gives me great pleasure to introduce to you Tom K who just underwent implant surgery a week ago and has agreed to share his story, his experiences, and pictures to those of you considering Penile Implant Surgery. Tom is also very unique to this blog site for Tom has been blind for many years now, yet he refuses to let blindness get in his way of enjoying life to it's fullest. Tom is also the first man to this site in that he is the first gentleman to experience a pubic insertion of his implant over the traditional scrotal insertion. There are advantages and disadvantages to both surgical methods. It is more a matter of surgical preference by the surgeon. Tom is at home recovering from his surgery this week and I have talked to him by phone on several occasions. I had hoped to have his story up last week, but was waylaid by walking pneumonia with a systemic staph infection thrown in. Taking three different antibiotics left yours truely looking for the license plate of the truck I got hit with. Pneumonia with diabetes is not a good combination. So with out any further ado, here is Tom's story. And as always, I am deeply indebted to all of the gentlemen who have contributed to this blog to make it the site that it has become.






Hi all, I'm a 48 year old man that's been having problems getting and keeping erections since I was in my twenties. I've tried many things to help, but one by one, they failed. I started with a V.E.D, but it hurt a lot when I put the tight ring around the base, so for quite a few years, I just had my wife go down on it, that would bring it up. Then I had to get it in her as fast as I could so I didn't lose it. Still, I'd lose it about half of the time. Then when viagra came out, I used it, but it was hit or miss. I even tried the other two pills, and it was the same problem. The next thing I tried was, Trimix injections. They worked great for a long time, but in the last six months, my whole penis would really hurt for as long as it was hard. I couldn't get into sex with that much pain, so I started looking into an implant. After a lot of research, I decided to go with the AMS 700 LGX. These photo's are of me right before I went into the hospital to have it done.

Tom K.





Sunday, February 3, 2008

Joe's Story

Dear Reader's:

One of this blog's reader's has submitted a copy of his story to add to the body of knowledge that this blog brings. With each story submitted, guys who have found their way to this blogsite, can obtain truthful information on whether to pursue a penile implant as a means of curing long term and difficult erectile dysfunction. The usual first line methods may or may not be working or just aren't satisfactory for you the reader. Penile Implants offer an amazing difference by producing natural feeling erections. Please take time to read each man's unique experience with penile implants. Here is Joe's Story.

I have read the entries submitted to date by othermembers. Because I believe that my experience adds to the information in a few significant ways, I am presuming to offer my story and a few comments:

In what ways are my experiences different?

1. I enjoyed the benefits of an inflatable implant for over 12 years between 1995 and 2007. The manufacturer offered a ten year warranty at the time of its insertion. At 81, I seem to be on the high end of contributors to this blog.

2. My HMO at first rejected my urologist'sprescription until I wrote and explained that the HMO guaranteed all benefits available to Medicare beneficiaries. The HMO reversed their original rejection. My urologist told me then that we made history because after that time, no more problems were experienced by his recommendations for implants to his patients.

3. After twelve years, I experienced a bladder infection and also perceived problems with the implant tubes pushing against the end of the glans. It had pierced the membrane between the stem and the glans and was extremely painful. My urologist signed me in for outpatient surgery to remove the implant. The device was found to still be working as designed, but we did not discuss any alternative to living with ED from now on. Yes, facing the consequence of no more erections has been difficult, but one does what one must.

4. Ancillary issues:

a. Original incontinence has continued; since it is manageable with pads inside jockey shorts, I lived with that.

b. Resultant impotence due to a prostatectomy also resulted in complete failure to raise an erection; after trying natural recovery (failed), drug injections (failed), and a pump (failed), I found a support group (Impotents Anonymous) and attended a number of meetings. Men brought their partners--wives or male partners--for well-directed discussions where everyone was comfortable discussing all sorts of issues. One man who had recently had an inflatable implant installed, brought his documentation and the cost ($15,000) of which he would have some of the expense due to the fact that he was a Medicare subscriber on a basic 80/20 sharing plus some items on the bill rejected by Medicare.

c. Use of the implant--my urologist gave me explicit directions and a first demonstration of the inflation to assure us that all worked as intended. My first surprise was that the tubes ended behind the glans and the glans remained soft and small. My penis when inflated was pretty close to its length before myprostatectomy. He told me that the implants came in various sizes for a proper fit to what nature had provided. Due to my research, I had no illusions about achieving an enlarged penis. I've never tried any of the devices or potions peddled to enlarge my penis, even though I've never met a man who did not agree that size matters. Most of us learned early in life to get the best with what we were endowed with.

d. Although I read an implicit acknowledgment in some of the previous blogs that most men live with the failure to ejaculate, I presume that in some instances ejaculation does happen (?) In my own instance, Ienjoy the secretion of precum but no ejaculate, since capacity to produce seminal matter is removed with the cancerous prostate. I have not thought about other causes of ED that might leave a man with the capability to ejaculate. Just the sensory benefits of climax were great enough for me. Some men are hung upon ejaculation, and though I can recall the sensation it provided (oh so long ago) I am working on what I have left now.

e. What I have left is a tiny piece of flaccid skin and a miniature penile survivor. Oh yes, I can with enough effort still generate a sensory climax.That is the extent of my capacity for sexual satisfaction related to the benefits of a firm tumescence and all the joys of its manipulation, insertion, etc. There are a lot of other erotic sensory resources open to me or any other ED challenged man, but they are beyond the scope of this blog, I would judge. My last advice to others is to be appreciative of all the information, help and support available now that was not available to me a little more than a decade ago. Explore the alternatives at least as exhaustively as you would the features of a new car and then decide objectively what your reasonable expectations should be and whether an implant 'is right for you'. No, it won't give your penis greater girth or length, and you'll never be the man you were in your 20's or 30's, but if you can settle for what is available, you may not be destined for the scrap heap just yet.Feel free to e-mail me if you have further questions.
Joe
joe69orforg@yahoo.com

Saturday, January 12, 2008

GW's Implant Story and Pictures


GWhad his surgery on January 7, 2008
Pictures were taken on January 10, 2008




















Dear Readers

Let me introduce you to a new poster to my Penileimplant blog site. His name is GW and he is home recovering from recent implant surgery. W opted for implant surgery following removal of his prostate due to cancer in late 2006. Wjoins my distinguished group of men who have opted to change their sexual lives by having penile implant surgery to reverse persistant and severe erectile dysfunction. Those of us who have had implant surgery hope that by sharing our experiences, we can educate men and their partners worldwide, that persistant ED can be over come. We want men everywhere to know that we can continue to enjoy sexual intercourse the rest of their lives. This despite having medical conditions that have severely damaged the ability of their penis to become engorged with blood and to maintain a stiff erection long enouth to enjoy sexual intercourse. Folks, here is GW story in his own words:
Bob,

Thanks for writing back, and thanks again for your blog---it helped me a great deal.........

ED- mine was not too bad and was a problem starting aroung age 50, I am now 58. Viagra worked well enough and I didn't really worry about it too much.

In 2006 I developed prostate cancer. My prostate was removed (with robotic surgery) 11-1-06.......After surgery my ED was a real problem.....Viagra stopped working at all, I tried the pump but it did not work, I tried the shots but did not like them. I got to the point that I would rather not have sex if it required a shot..........

The decision was simple.....an implant or complete ED. After reading your blog I decided to go with the implant.....Your blog was the only information that I felt was trustworthy...........

The implant was done 1-7-08, the pictures were taken 1-10-08 (yesterday)......I am a little sore but it is not bad. All I am taking for pain is over the counter meds 2 or 3 times a day, and I could do without them. I am taking them mostly for the pain involved in deflating the tubes since they seem to auto inflate after a few hours.

I am still having a problem with incontinence but it is still improving gradually so I decided to wait and see what it does before having more extra parts installed........If I don't dry-up in the next 4-5 months I will have the male sling installed...........

I will be glad to answer any questions and will send more photos as things change and I am able to start using the implant........My doc said not to inflate it for four weeks............

Let me know what else I can do or answer to help with your blog.

GW

Monday, January 7, 2008

Jack's Story
















Dear Readers:
Once again, I am priveledged to share with you another man's story of his battle with ED and subsequent implant surgery. Jack brings a unique view as someone who first had a maleable penile implant implanted first. When it failed, he opted for a three piece Mentor Alpha 1 penile implant which he uses today. Jack has graciously offered his story to you the reader in the hope that all of you can gain knowledge from his candor. Jack tells it like it is, both what he likes and what he disliked of both devices. Jack now joins a distinguished group of men who have consented to telling their story on this blog. We who have implants know how difficult it is for men to decide if a penile implant is right for you. Jack has also supplied pictures of his genitals with the Mentor Alpha 1 implant. He also gives you measure ments listed in centimeter. To convert centimeters into inches, 2.5 centimeters equals one inch. Here is Jack's story:

Bob,
You have an awesome blog on a relevant topic for many men. The information you present is honest and heartfelt. It is informative and I can only wish it was available when I was doing my research before getting my implants. Thank you for your candor in sharing your story and photographs. After further consideration, I have decided to share some of my own personal experiences and opinions. Please feel free to post this information on your blog along with some of my photographs.

In the late 1990’s I suddenly realized that the quality of my erections had slowly declined to the point where I could no longer have intercourse with my wife. My penis looked hard, but it was not rigid enough for penetration. Needless to say I was surprised, shocked, and dismayed that I could no longer have sex. My self-confidence and self-esteem also took a blow. Something had to be done and I made an appointment with an urologist.

One of the first tests I did was a snap ring. Before I went to bed each night I would put the snap ring around my penis. During the night my nocturnal erections were supposed to “snap” the ring and break it. Unfortunately, they never did. The next tests I did included a urine flow test to check for prostrate problems (I think); an MRI of the brain to check for any pituitary gland problems; and a testosterone level check. No issues were found and I passed each test with flying colors.

My urologist gave me a prescription for a medical grade vacuum pump which I promptly purchased. I used the pump for awhile with mixed success. Pumping was stimulating, felt great, produced some the largest erections I ever had, and was completely natural. On the flip side the pumping process was slow and the constriction rings were very uncomfortable. Erections felt cold to the touch, were limited to 30 minutes, and the base of my penis acted like a swivel. Viagra help with my arousal, but not my erections.

I wanted something simpler and more spontaneous than the vacuum pump so I tried drug treatments. These included direct injections into my penis and Muse, which used catheter like device to place a small pill in my urethra. I did not like the drugs; the injections were painful, distracting, and did not solve my problem. And from what I have read lately, injections can apparently cause internal scarring.

Venous leakage caused by repeated straddle injuries probably caused my impotence. As a youth I used to jump bicycles. As an adult, I moved up to dirt bikes and four-wheelers. Consequently my groin area took a lot of abuse over the years and I can remember some painful injuries from landing on hard bars and seats. Blood still flowed into my penis and produced an erection, but it slowly leaked out. The result was tumescence without rigidity. I also think that there may have been some congenital issues too.

I was totally discouraged, dejected, frustrated, disgusted, and depressed! Everything I tried had failed and there were few options left. I considered vascular surgery and nixed it due to its low chance of success. I was getting desperate for a permanent solution and started to seriously consider a penile prosthesis. This was the late 1990’s and information was scarce. My research included meeting with my urologists, watching implant videos, and searching the internet for information.

My requirements were simple. I wanted something that gave me a rigid erection suitable for intercourse, was easy to use, simple to implant, reliable, and inexpensive. I chose the AMS 650 semi-rigid penile prosthesis and was implanted at age 35. The surgery was done on an outpatient basis with no complications and my wife drove me home from the hospital the very same day. I have two distinct impressions from that day. First, my penis was bandaged and looked like a hotdog in crescent roll. Second, it was almost impossible to urinate due to presence of the implants and swelling from surgery!

My next big (no pun intended) impression was the change in length x girth. My penis was now shorter and significantly thinner. I was prepared to lose some length, but the loss in girth truly shocked me and was completely unexpected. I lost at least 4.0 cm of length and 2.5 cm of girth. The loss in girth was especially noticeable the first time my wife and I had sex and I felt loose inside her. I could tell she noticed it too, but she never let on that she was unhappy.

AMS 650
What I liked
Spontaneous always ready to go
Rigid rock hard erection
Unlimited duration erection
Reliable

What I did not like
Permanent erection
No expansion in girth
Cylinders did not fill out penis
Difficult to conceal
Embarrassing at times

Seven years after I got my AMS 650, I noticed a clicking feeling on the right side. I went to my new urologist who examined me and determined that the right rod had indeed broken and needed to be replaced. I was more than a little surprised, but readily agreed to get it replaced ASAP. I immediately ruled out getting another semi-rigid device. My urologist and I reviewed the AMS 700 and Mentor Alpha I three-piece inflatable prosthesis (IPP) and he assured me that either one would give me an excellent result.

My requirements this time were increased girth, daily comfort, ease of concealment, and a reliable easy to use pump. I wanted a normal life with a natural erectile process. Please note that increased length was not a consideration. I chose the Mentor Alpha I and was implanted at age 43. The surgery was again done on an outpatient basis with no complications and my wife drove me home from the hospital the very same day. I remember my implant being partially inflated and my penis being by a special jock strap.

My second implant surgery again resulted in a change in length x girth. My penis is still smaller than my natural erection, but it is significantly thicker than my last implant. Although length is about the same, I was thrilled when I gained back 1.9 cm of girth. The gain in girth was especially noticeable the first time my wife and I had sex and I no longer felt loose inside her. My ego and self-confidence go a tremendous boost and my wife is happier too.

Mentor Alpha I
What I like
Daily comfort
Normal bio function and erectile process
Easy to conceal
Rigid erection suitable for intercourse
Cylinder expansion increases girth with some length
Unlimited duration erection
Reliable

What I do not like
No expansion in girth
Cylinders do not fill out penis
Increased chance of failure from moving parts
Limited product lifetime

I almost forgot to list my measurements. I measure length by pushing the ruler or tape all the way in until it stops at the pubic bone while I measure girth at mid-shaft.

Before surgery – natural age 21
Bone pressed length 19.0 cm
Visible length 19.0 cm
Mid-shaft girth 13.9 cm

First surgery – AMS 650 age 35
Bone pressed length 15.0 cm
Visible length 12.7 cm (need to lose weight)
Mid-shaft girth 11.4 cm

Second surgery – Mentor Alpha I age 43
Bone pressed length 15.4 cm
Visible length 12.7 cm
Mid-shaft girth 13.4 cm

Although I still get natural latent erections from time-to-time, I do not include them when I measure since they are atypical and uncontrollable. When they occur they tend to add more girth than length. I occasionally use a vacuum pump to help preserve my remaining natural erection.
Overall I am very happy with my IPP, but the road to happiness does have a price. Getting a penile implant of any type is a lifetime commitment. Remember, once an implant, always an implant, there is no going back. Expect to have pain and discomfort. Expect to lose length and girth. Expect to have more surgeries. Exhaust all other possibilities first. Choose the implant type that best suits and meets your personal needs.

Thank you again Bob for your great blog! If you have any questions, please let me know.
Jack

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

New Year with my Penile Impant





My penis erect at 45 degree angle





I can leave my penis erect for hours without any harm occurring.
4 hours, a piece of cake.


My erection 5.75 inches
The underside of my penis. Scars are fully healed.





My penis in the flacid state.











Picture of me in underwear
A lot fuller with the implant
Dear Readers:

First: If you have just found my blogsite and are truely interested in permanently giving your "Erectile Dysfunction" the heave ho, and enjoying great sex once again, wherever an when ever. Please, please, please give penile implants a good chance and consider them. Please go to the beginning of my blog in May 2007 where I began exploring the option of having surgery for an implant. If there is one thing that I have done, that is a thorough search through a top notch medical library into penile implants. I have a wealth of information for you in this blog. I wrote this blog for you, the guy whose sick of not having a hard erect penis to enjoy in the bedroom. I too spent years takin shots for an erection. I've used viagra and cialis. I've used vacuum constriction devices. Let me say this only once. If I could do it over, back in 1993 when I began having trouble with my erections, I would have had this surgery without any question whats so ever. And my loving wife of 26 years emphatically agrees with that statement. This blog website also features graphic pictures of my genitals as well as other men's genitals who have implant surgery. We all want to tell you and your partner what this surgery entails. And we want to tell you truthfully why we had the surgery. In this post, I am 7 months post surgery and I am going to post pictures that I have taken of my genitals so that you can see that they look perfectly normal looking. My erections and you are going to have to take my word for this, but truthfully, with the implant, my penis feels the same as it has always felt during erection. The cavities that would normally be filled with blood are now filled with a saline encased chamber the length of my penis. After I ejaculate, I continue to remain erect for however long that I want to and it continues to feel very good indeed. My wife can continue to enjoy intercourse with my erect penis in her vagina. My penis is the same as it's always been. That is not everyone's experience, but it is mine. So please, if you are just starting out to research Penile Implant surgery, please go to the beginning of this blog site as this is the end of my blog. The pictures that I am posting were taken on January 1, 2008 and I am now 7 months post surgical penile implant. I have an AMS 700 Ultrex implant in my penis now. And as you can see from the pictures, it would be impossible for anyone to be able to tell that there is an implant inside of my penis. In fact, the only way anybody can teel that you have an implant is they can feel the pump inside of your scrotum. If AMS ever discovers a way to hide a pump inside the abdomen, nobody, and I mean nobody, not even your doctor would have an easy time telling does he, or doesn't he have a penile implant. Penile Implants enjoy a 92% satisfaction rate among men who have them. It's not perfect yet, but in my case, I am a 100% satisfied customer. So look through my blog. Learn all you can about implants. Email me with questions if you like at bbacon15@yahoo.com
I try and answer everybody. Good luck to everyone and heres hoping that 2008 becomes a bright, new year for you and your loving partner.
Bob

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Comment's on Kevin's Implant Surgery





"Kevin's Story, Years of ED followed by Implant Surgery"
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drevil said...
Kevin your story is close to mine its almost scary. I'm 38 other than ED completely healthy. I had my implant on the 23 of Oct. 2007.

My doctors suggested waiting 6 weeks as well. I'm not a patient man and pumped it up last night for the first time. I sure hope that early pumping is not a true indicator of permanent size. I was large in relation to girth, but the 6.5 length was always sufficient when hard.

I have to admit I was horrified by the erect little penis before me last night. It was 4-4.5 inches long and half the original girth. It was like a slightly longer version of my thumb.
I was totally willing to lose up to an inch, and was hoping to gain some girth. Mortified on both accounts.
I agree that a smaller working penis is infinitely better than a larger non-functioning one, but the thing that I saw is not going to get the job done for my wife. I know she'll let me do my thing, but I am so tired of the sympathy screw, I would rather do with out.
I'm hoping that things change in a few weeks, but right now I'm scared as hell.
Mike

November 18, 2007 11:04 AM


Kevin said...
Hi drevil, This is Kevin, the person who's article you responded to on Bobs Blogspot.
I am now just past week 5 and just starting to pump my implant. I am writing this to discourage you from getting down to early. There is a huge healing process for your penis to go through, and as you have probably read it will take up to 12 weeks for you to be fully healed from this very invasive surgery.
At week 5 I am about 1 inch shorter than i was before surgery when I used Viagra. I have also lost quite a bit of size in the head ( That is expected as all the information tells you) Now in your story, you are not as far along as I am and you are already trying to measure a healing Penis by pumping. You are not going to reach maximum length and girth at this stage. And you are new to pumping, that is also a learning curve. I can tell you at 5 weeks I could pump more than I have, but at this stage it is just too soon and is very uncomfortable. I have also not regained some girth, but I am happy to be able to get hard and have an Orgasam. I just had my first sexual experience yesterday since surgery ( No not penetration, way too painful) But now I am hard I find I have much more feeling in my penis and I do not worry about losing it. I am sure given time both you and I will see increases in our penis size. Please be strong and wait some more time, I think you will find it will get better. I will keep you posted.

November 23, 2007 3:28 PM

drevil has left a new comment on your post "Kevin's Story, Years of ED followed by Implant Sur...":

Kevin thanks for you encouragement. My attitude has improved lately and I believe that I should achieve an adequate size to please my wife.

After much research I am convinced that my doctor used the preconnected AMS ultrex unit. Which has a max length of 18cm with up to 3 cm tip extenders. 7 cm seems too be a common proximal corpora (inside part)l length. 21cm - 7cm = 14cm. 14cm is about 5.5 inches. I have a follow up appointment with my Uro this week and I'll get the specifics. If my suspicions are correct, it will kinda suck because it means that instead of taking the time to get the most size, he took the easier ;albeit less room for error;route.

I have a couple pump questions for you though. My pump is actually bulb part down and on the inside of the testicle. Is yours? I've also notice that the first squeeze is extremely tough and it feels like it is caused by air bubbles.

My 6 month Anniversary




Dear Readers:
I'm just a couple days shy of a full six months post op with my penile implant. Wow, what a six months it has been. By a rough average, I have corresponded with almost 200 readers from around 30 countries. I wish all of you guys have as good a result with your surgery and implant as I have. I continue to enjoy my implant. I'm about a quarter inch in circumference greater in the circumference of my penis. I'm almost a 1/2 inch longer in length than my old length. I continue to exercise my penis with the implant daily and may be almost at the maximum length of my Ultrex implant with a little more left till I reach maximum. I'll get it stretched out to its max length and girth in a few months. We're visiting my daughter this weekend and the wife and I have taken a motel room over the Thanksgiving holiday. We are enjoying ourselves sexually as it's always fun having intercourse in a new bed. We definitely are in love with each other. God how I wish I'd had this implant in a 20 year old body. My wife and I both would have had trouble walking in the mornings. It may sound odd, but I so prefer the implant over the injections and over Viagra and cialis. I don't have the crappy side effects of Viagra and cialis. And the erections are as hard as the injections, but I control the length of time of my erection. And their is no pain from the injection, and now at six months, the erections from the implant are so comfortable and spontaneous. I can still pump it so hard, that I could feel pain in the head of my penis, but that isn't necessary because a really hard erection can be had without any discomfort what so ever. My wife comments that she loves feeling me inside her and riding my erection to orgasm in the women on top position. There are some men who have lost some length in their penis with an implant. The reasons for this are:

1. Prostatectomy removal due to cancer. Occurs in about 30% of men.
2. Scarring due to Peyronie's Disease. Your Urologist should do a scar tissue analysis of your penis and give you an informed opinion on how this will affect your post op length.
3. Scarring within the penis due to injections of vasoactive drugs, i.e.; Tri-mix, Bi-mix, and Caverject. You should see your Uro twice a year the first two years of use of vasoactive drugs and then at least once a year thereafter and ask your Uro to check you for scarring. Very important.
4. Injury to the penis. Men have experienced injury during intercourse as well as a blow to the penis can cause serious injury and scarring inside your penis.
5. Long standing impotence with very few erections over time. The penis is a muscle that surrounds spongy tissue. It needs regular erections to stretch oxygenate the tissue. When we started puberty, we started a process of nightly erections. If you are having serious impotence, get a vacuum erection pump and pump up that penis into a hard erection on a daily basis. I had a vacuum pump. I didn't use it for intercourse prior to my implant, but I did use it for masturbation on a regular basis. It just feels good having a full erection. All men know that feeling. If intercourse doesn't look very likely, find a few private moments, get a good erection, and masturbate your penis to orgasm. Studies show its very good for both prostate and good penis health. Men have more issues with BPH or enlarged prostate than men who have daily orgasms, either from intercourse or masturbation. We get a lot of recommendations on maintaining our bodies health. None of them compare and are as enjoyable as a good orgasm either with our partner, or just by ourselves. At 16, you beat that penis so often you were lucky you didn't have carpal tunnel problems. You don't have to match that level for good penis health.
6. And last but not least, poor sizing of a man's penis by the implant surgeon. Before going in to see the surgeon, take out a tape measure and take pictures to show to your surgeon with the date and time the pictures were taken. Inform the surgeon that you expect to obtain very close and similar results with the implant. Let your doctor know that you expect very similar length and girth results following surgery. Tell your surgeon that you expect to be no more than a half inch within those measurements after 6 weeks postop. That is a very realistic expectation. If he has any reservations of meeting and obtaining those measurements post op 6 weeks, then he needs to tell you upfront why before you let him perform surgery. Write up what was said during the interview, date & time of the interview and date and time you are writing out your notes. Those notes are not discoverable should you be in the very small percentage that has a poor result and you are forced into litigation. This should be a very successful operation. Do your research. I've been through the implant experience. I wrote this blog to help any man contemplating this procedure to have access to my experiences as well as having other men's written experiences to learn from. We fill the gap where you can learn the things that you really want to know about before letting someone filet your penis. The penis is a measure of who we are as men and if you ask men, which if you had a choice, part of your body you can live without. Your penis is the one part of our body that goes way to the bottom of my list. I also want to make the request of my readers. If you have implant surgery and feel comfortable about telling your experiences with ED and your experiences having implant surgery. I would love to post your story on this blog site. And if you are comfortable taking pictures of your penis either before surgery and after surgery with the implant, I would love for you to email me at
bbacon15@yahoo.com
I promise you anonymity. This site is not a porn site. Men who study the pictures and read the stories aren't men who are looking to get off on the pictures of your penis and mine. The men who come to this website are guys who are suffering with erectile dysfunction and are looking for a method of returning to sexually active men again. I also get emails from many spouses and partners of impotent men who thank me for keeping this site active to help other men world wide. They praise the men who tell their stories and find the pictures we have posted to be very reassuring. One of the most often asked question that I receive is about how their genitals will appear following implant surgery. I can tell them without any doubt in my mind that no one can tell if they have an implant through just looking. If you touch my penis, you can't tell their are two cylinders inside the shaft of my penis. All that anybody can tell is by feeling the pump inside of my scrotum. At six months, I no longer even think about the pump anymore. During the day, I don't even feel the implant inside my genitals and scrotum inside my pants. When I urinate, my penis feels normal, looks normal. My penis is fuller and is longer than I was flaccid prior to my implant. My penis flaccid stays about 4 inches long and is fuller than it was pre-implant. My penis definitely sticks out of my pants when I urinate and is pretty easy to find inside my underwear now. But is also normal looking and doesn’t look like I have an erection. I'm going to try and post my 6 month post op pics sometime this week. What a post implant penis that is well healed looks like. I also need to compile a Frequently Asked Questions Post on this blog to also help answer my readers questions.
Take care of your penis and enjoy it for a lifetime.
Kindest regards
Bob

dr evil said...
Bob,
I wish you would have placed this post before I had my surgery. Your advice on pre-op size pictures and documentation could have given me an extra 3cm. I have lost an 1 1/2 in. all because my doctor chose to go with the preconnected unit that AMS offers. The max length of tubes is 18 cm in this option. Eventhough AMS offers 21cm tubes which would have brought my loss up to 1/2 in.
Of course my doctors attitude is that my length is adequate and my remembered length is distorted. You see if a patient doesn't take the time to prove his pre-op size you have no contradictory evidence after the implant is in.

December 1, 2007 6:12 PM

Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Kevin's Story, Years of ED followed by Implant Surgery









Friends:

I'm pleased to introduce all of you to Kevin and to publish his story along with several pictures that he has graciously submitted to me for publishing on this blog. As I have said all along. I created this blog to become a learning resource, and to fill a real void that is out there. That void is information from those of us who have undergone surgery and had a surgical implant placed in our penis so that we could once again enjoy sexual relations with our partner's. If this is your first visit to my blog, than I would urge you to navigate to the beginning which starts in May 2007 and read all of the entries of this blog. You will then be able to read my experiences as well as view pictures that I took of myself all the way through my implant experience. You will also be able to read and view pictures of other men's implant experiences that are posted on the blog site. Today Kevin now joins a very select group of men who is willing to share his experiences with all of you. I really appreciated it when some very special men take the time to share with people who are from all over the world who are seeking as much information as they can about penile implant surgery to a very important part of our male bodies. This is Kevin's story as well as pictures of his penis both flacid and under the influence of viagra. Kevin had implant surgery a little over two weeks ago and will be sending me pictures which will be added to this blog site at a later point of his penis in the flacid as well as erect stage due to his implant. This is Kevin's story.

Hi Bob,
Great to hear back from you. I am very excited to have my implant and I will be very patient with it and not rush things along. Here is my story and I give you permission to publish my story on your blog. You are quite welcome to edit it in any way you see fit. Congratulations on the pending new web site, I would be very interested in helping in any way I can. I will do some pictures for you of the end result and you can also publish some pictures I had pre op, this might help people understand loss of length girth post op. Those were taken with Viagra, Viagra only worked for a short period once I initiated sex; maybe 15 minutes, then it usually would not stay erect for penetration leading up to my implant. So I had just had another disappointment at the Urologists office, I had been given a penile injection after a Doppler scan of my penis revealed low blood flow, The injection was the next thing after trying all the usual suspects, Viagra, Cialis, Levitra. All the pills had worked with limited success, I would get hard but then go down as I was about to penetrate, or the timing was off with my girlfriend. Sometimes the side effects were terrible, raging from headaches, heartburn!! Sometimes they never worked at all. So here I am lying on the Urologists table having an Injection placed in my penis for the first time, OUCH!!! and the real kicker was "Nothing" not a dam stirring in my penis after 30 minutes, now I was depressed.

So Dr M looks at me and says Kevin you might want to think about the Penile Implant as he pulls a model device from his white coat pocket. The thing looked huge; I thought to myself how the hell do they get all that in there? Anyway I listened intently and got as much information as I could from Dr M and then I went home and studied, going online and finding out as much information as I could about penile implants, the information which included Bob’s wonderful Blog gave me hope.

Then of course that dreaded word "Surgery" reared its head. I am sure that like most of you reading this, sex is so important to us guys, I decided right then if I could get my insurance to pay, I would ask Dr M to perform the surgery as soon as possible. That date turned out to be October 17th 2007 at 8am!!! Here is my ED story, I am sure some of you will feel I am lucky to have had this surgery, because as you will find out, my ED was never the side effect of Cancer or any other disease or ailment, and sometimes it just did not work and that just kept getting worse. It might also surprise some of you that my first Urologist visit was May 2007 and in October of the same year I have my implant in place.

The beginning of Erectile Dysfunction

My ED started as long ago as 1980 I was 20 years old and not married, my girlfriend at the time and I on occasions experienced erection difficulties that would make my penis go down before we had finished making love. This was the start, over the next 10 years I had intermittent problems but was successful most of the time. I got
married at 29 and my wife and I enjoyed a healthy sex life with the continuing intermittent issues and then at about age 35 I started to have real difficulty, suddenly semi erect or no erection at all. I am sure most of you can relate to the "once it starts it then becomes a terrible mental battle with yourself" thing. To keep this shor,t this is when I started the Viagra etc and my road towards the implant. I think we all find some sort of injustice, the why me syndrome. I was very lucky to be blessed with a large endowment, but I can tell you, there have been many times that I would have settled for a hard 5 inch penis than the thick 7.5 inches I had been granted by the penis god, that after age 35 would not reach its potential without assistance or sometimes not at all.

So here we are many year later, implant in place and this is my story as of 17 days Post op.

My procedure went very smoothly and on time. I had the best care possible and all of the staff at the hospital were wonderful. There was very little prep and my surgery was at 8am. I remember going in to the operating room, but was out pretty quickly, and the next thing I knew, I was waking up in the recovery room, all done. The rest of the day is kind of a blur, on pain medication and obviously the after effects of the surgery. The first night I had enough pain meds too keep myself from feeling much of anything, but I can tell you the next week was painful but bearable with the help of Oxycodone. The surgeon did a wonderful job, one incision in the scrotum and most of the bruising was actually at the base of the scrotum and in the penile shaft. There are several pictures showing my penis at the 14 day mark. I am sure most of you want to know is it really painful. Well the answer is NO, not really, more of very uncomfortable. The biggest problem I have had is sleeping. I tend to move around a lot in my sleep, and it keeps waking me up. After 2 weeks I have started to sleep better and the bruising and discomfort is diminishing.
Now there are different after care procedures depending on the surgeon, here is my post op care.

1. Surgeon phone call, day after procedure
2. 5 days after surgery Office visit for check up
3. 10 days post op, stitches removed
4. Next Visit 6 weeks Post op

My surgeon does not allow any pumping of the device until the six week mark. It is inflated 25% and left that way until my six week follow up. Your surgeon may be different, some allow pumping as early as two weeks post op. As of today I am feeling very positive about the surgery and I will keep you updated on my progress and will also provide updated photographs of the penis when my pumping starts. I have heard many stories of people being disappointed about losing some length, I guess that one throws me through a loop somewhat, because if you cannot get hard, Isn’t it better to lose an inch and be ready. I expect to lose an inch and I am willing to accept that for being able to maintain an erection.I will update my story at the six week mark, if you wish to contact me you can e mail me at ktusacan@msn.com
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Let me know if the pictures came through BOB, hope this is good material for your blog.
Best Regards,
Kevin (It is ok to use my real name)

Saturday, October 13, 2007




Dear Readers
I received a question this week from one of my readers concerning the implant and riding a motorcycle. While I don't ride a bike, the implant has become so comfortable that it is very easy to forget all about it during the day. It's designed to be internal and completely out of the way of everyday activities. The cylinders are completely internal inside the penis and when flacid, are completely deflated. The reservoir is internal inside the body. The only part of the pump that isn't protected is the pump located inside the scrotum. Shortly after receiving the implant my right testicle was pretty tender and sore. Now that I am completely healed, the pump doesn't seem to effect my testicle at all. I have rode a regular bike on an 18 mile ride with no pain or dificulty what so ever.

A complaint that is often heard is some men have lost some length of erection following implant surgery. While this still remains a small percentage of men, it is a valid concern among us men. We are used to a particular length andnobody enjoys losing so much as a single milimeter off our erections. Erectile Dysfunction is due to different disease states. We have to realize that when ED happens, we need to treat this condition as an urgent problem and get help right away. Delaying treatment means trouble down the road. Erections are needed to bring vitally needed oxygen to our penis. Lack of oxygen will result in tissue becoming stiff and possible scar tissue forming. The tissue inside the penis needs to be kept be kept stretched and flexible to retain both girth and length. Guys, if you are having ED, you need to see your doctor for viagra, cialis, a vacuum pump, or even start using shots of a vaso-active drugs. You need to keep having several erections every week. You cannot let impotence stop you from having erections and also having ejaculations to keep your penis healthy. I spent 17 years working in Histopathology or the study of tissue. I know from experience and training how necessary this is. In addition, while I'm on my soapbox, if you smoke, quit. Yeah, yeah I know its tough. I was an idiot to. I quit about 18 years ago after starting smoking in the Army. Get your high cholesterol under control, and exercise. I developed Insulin Dependant Diabetes over 20 years a go. For me, it was a wake up call. I changed the way I lived. Watched what I ate, got fit, and saw my doctor. When I developed ED, I got it treated. With my implant, I haven't lose any length. My penis is still healthy and able to stretch because of the steps I took years ago. I'm hoping that you are keeping yourself as healthy as you can.
Take care
Bob

Saturday, October 6, 2007

I've begun to experience an increase in length




Hello Readers:
It's October all ready and I can't believe how the time has gone by. I continue to enjoy my implant. Because I mostly sleep on my side or on my back at night, I often pump an erection and leave it pumped erect all night long. I've started seeing an increase in length now. All my life, my penis has measured exactly five and a half inches. Now when I pump my penis to a respectable erection, my length has increased to five and three quarters inches. I have pumped it hard to where it gets uncomfortable and it reaches a solid six inches. I believe it time that my penis will increase in length to six inches and remain comfortable at that length. I have the AMS 700 Ultrex penile implant and I quickly regained my old length after I was allowed to use the implant. I find that it feels very comfortable now when I pump up a reasonable erection that is nice and firm. My erection feels very comfortable while having intercourse with zero discomfort what so ever. It feels very natural to me. If I could not feel the pump in my scrotum and had my current erection, I would not be able to tell the difference at all from the erections I had at twenty years old. Only difference. This erection does not go down after I ejaculate. I stay hard and can enjoy the feelings and continue thrusting away often bringing another orgasm for my wife. She never gets cheated out of having an orgasm now. I LOVE THIS IMPLANT. If you opt for an implant, I highly recomend the AMS Ultrex implant. The vast majority of men are having very enjoyable sex with their partners using this implant. Knowing what I know now, I really wish I had taken this route years before I did. This was the best thing, next to my insulin pump, that I have done for myself and my wife. I sincerely hope that you enjoy and your spouse or partner enjoy the implant and the wonderful rock solid hard on's as much as my wife and I do. It's a wonderful feeling to have the spontanaety of sex put back into our marriage. If my wife and I desire sex, I am hard as a rock in under 30 seconds. Try achieving that with viagra or shots.
Take care and turn the lights off. It's going to be one of those nights where I'm busy again feeling the earth move.
Bob